What Everybody Ought to Know About Writing

by Jeff Goins | 92 Comments | Twitter, Facebook, Google+

It’s hard.
It’s harder than you think.
It never gets easier (but it does get better).
It’s scarier than it should be (but not too bad once you start).
It’s the last thing you want to do when it’s the first thing you should do.
It’s usually pretty thankless (especially when you’re doing it right).
It’s easy to begin, hard to continue, and even harder to finish.
It’s never enough; you can always do more.
It can be painful.
It’s hard.

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Jeff Goins

Writer, idea guy, difference-maker. I help people tell better stories and make a difference in the world. My family and I reside just outside of Nashville, TN. Follow me on Twitter, Facebook, or Google Plus.

Lynn McCann

True…but exciting nonetheless!
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  yep!
  - Sdaviscmt
    
    Cool when to use Kiss theory, Keep it Simply Stupid. When not to use big words any Ideas?
http://www.wakeupcloud.com/ Henri Junttila

Love this.

I’d say the same is true for starting an online business, or doing anything that’s worthwhile.

It’s harder than you think. It’ll take longer than you think. And you will be afraid, but in the end, it’s well worth it.

At least that’s what I’ve found.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  love that, Henri. totally agree.
http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

I have to agree with all you say.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  thanks, Larry!
http://twitter.com/tdhurst Tyler Hurst

It still feels like all I do is make stuff up every day.

I’m both proud and slightly embarrassed.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  that seems healthy.
Ndidi Nwaokafor

I can identify with all your points here about writers and their writings—. Especially on the point that it is easy to begin, hard to continue and harder to finish. Why is it so hard to finish- to one’s utter satisfaction? I have started many excellent works that I’m still struggling to bring to a perfect finish. Always thinking and feeling there is more to add and some more to prune away. I get so mad at myself atimes for I know Ihave more to give and can do better than this. What am I not doing right?
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  i think it has to do with the creative mind. we like starting things better than continuing them or finishing them.
  - MelanieClarkDorsey
    
    Oh yeah…I get all endorphin pumped with THE BEST ideas…THE GREATEST projects…and about 3 days in…forget about it.
    Although I am pleased with the ideas and projects I’ve actually disciplined myself to follow through.
Robbie Pruitt

Good insights and truths about writing.

Thanks Jeff!
imlou

Awesome!
http://www.redemptionsbeauty.com/ Shelly Miller

Having one of those days of wondering what I am doing with all of this. And those simple words were the encouragement I needed. Thank you.
Jessica

You stopped too soon, Jeff. Here’s a few more for the list…

- It’s fun.
- Hard and fun aren’t mutually exclusive.
- The tougher the going, the more fun you have.
- The only thing that limits you is yourself.
- Once you know the rules you get to break them.
- It’s one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  good ones, Jessica. thanks for sharing.
- http://www.andersgerdmar.com/ Anders Gerdmar
  
  Yes, writers have fun. Especially after.
  - http://twitter.com/GloriaFlory Gloria Flory
    
    I am having a difficult time keeping my eye on the prize and really just following through. Reading “Wrecked” is helping… a lot. Thanks and take care. http://Millionaire4Project.blogspot.com
- http://twitter.com/cupojoegirl Eileen Knowles
  
  Love these, Jessica!
- Torrouno
  
  Dearest Jessica: please I´m learning and I agree with your post. If we are talking about writing, shouldn´t your post had read “The only thing that limits your writing is you.”?
  - Jessica
    
    Ah, yes, Torrouno, you are right!
Milinda52

Thanks, Jeff. This is so true. It is very painful, and it hurts too much sometimes. But it will get better soon. I love your writing, I can relate to this in my quilting.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  i appreciate that. thank you.
RobG

Hello Jeff thanks so much for point those keep points out, you nailed it right on the head…
http://www.valeriecollinswriter.com/ Collins Valerie

Thank you so much for this. For the first time for a long time I don’t feel so alone and misunderstood!!!!
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  you’re welcome, Collins. thanks for the comment!
RobG

Hello Jeff thanks so much for pointing those keep points out, you nailed it right on the head. Sorry for the double posting
http://www.andersgerdmar.com/ Anders Gerdmar

I wholeheartedly agree that it is hard. Awful. Especially the threshold experience, perhaps a little bit like the horse feels before jumping…? But it is just to do it, to write something right on, even though I need to change it many times later…
Great post, and perhaps your shortest, right ?
http://www.authorcynthiaherron.com/ Cynthia Herron

Great thoughts, Jeff! I’m RT’ing!
http://www.wellwishingsongs.com/ Kate

I’ve been teaching writing at the college level for more than 10 years now. While I agree that writing is often hard, what I want my students to know is that writing offers us a gateway to understanding, freedom, and greater love for the world. I believe it’s vitally important to tell young writers (and struggling writers – and ourselves!) both sides of this truth.
Keith Dugger

Just got finished trudging through a blog post and then came across this…I feel better now.
Chris Evangelista

You hit the nail right on its head, Jeff! Great short post!
Darlene Steelman

These are the truest facts about writing I have read in a long time. I am having a difficult time keeping my eye on the prize and really just following through. Reading “Wrecked” is helping… a lot. Thanks and take care.
Johnson8330

Yup, on all counts. And still we do it. Thank God. I would be a mess if I didn’t do it.
Alan

NOW you tell me! (grin)

Trying to learn how to resonate with people so they will enjoy reading what i write and will join my tribe is frustrating, more difficult than I could have imagined and sometimes almost heartbreaking. Plus, it is just plain hard to do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwYig2CP66Q&feature=related Phaerisee

My advice, unless you are the writing version of Mozart, is to major in a lucrative profession. Make solid investments in assets like rare earth, Chinese utilities and hedge against debt. Retire at 40 and live off of the interest. That gives you at least 30 years to write your famous novel while enjoying the finest wines, meats and cheeses.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGFAph3lWqw
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  hmmmm…
Marnie

Hey Jeff, Sort of a bummer seeing that list, no matter how true. I find that when it feels particularly thankless, that’s the time to switch to a passion project to make myself feel better. One hilarious journey is NanoWriMo where you spew out a novel in 30 days. It’s a ton of fun and the only way to ‘win’ is by ignoring that pesky inner voice that constantly edits us before words even hit the page.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  hmmm, Marnie. I look at this with the opposite perspective: it’s encouraging to me to hear that this isn’t supposed to be easy. gives me hope. most things that are hard are worth doing.
Tina Siuagan

Writing…

* It’s fulfilling…
* It’s a little frustrating to start with at first…
* It’s a skill most people are reluctant enough nurture…
* It’s something you don’t become good at overnight…
* It can be a source of living IN THE LONG RUN.

And most of all, it’s one thing that can make a writer both crazy and sane. >.<
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  love the last bit.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=711717512 Eddie Charles Renz

It is hard. Then it’s rewarding and sometimes cathartic. It can also be emotionally draining depending on the subject… or maybe, it’s always emotionally draining if you are passionate about the subject matter.

P.S. I let my mentor read Wrecked and he loved it.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  wow, thanks, Eddie!
Sandra Gardner

Maybe I’m not doing this writing thing “right,” cuz for me, writing is fun, easy, effortless, joyful, and my favorite thing to do. Yes, finishing can be a challenge, for sure, but writing is like breathing for me — like living, actually — and I always wonder, why all this focus on how hard it is? Seems really negative to me
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Sounds like you’ve got a good thing going, Sandra. William Zinsser talked about the difference between writing as a vocation versus avocation. I think that may be the difference. If writing is your job, it sometimes feels “hard” (as all jobs do). I think the trick is to realize that what makes it hard is also what makes it great. It’s hard like working out is hard or learning carpentry is hard. Not because it’s bad, but because it requires skill and effort. Thanks for the comment.
  - Sandra L. Gardner
    
    I’ve been thinking about this and I think the difference is defined in one word: Struggle. It sounds like your definition of hard = challenging, exhausting, at times painful. To me hard implies struggle, suffering. Struggle comes when you’re going against the grain, doing something you have to FORCE yourself to do. Think of childbirth. It’s painful. Challenging. Overwhelming. Draining. Exhausting. But hard? No. It’s natural.
http://twitter.com/Jon_Wilburn Jon Wilburn

Yes, yes, and yes. Funny. I’m sitting at the computer now, with the intent to write. Both my girls are napping. Total free time. I should be writing, yet here I am. Yes it’s hard, but man I do enjoy it.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  amen.
http://www.sharonrosegibson.com/ Sharon Rose Gibson

LOL! This brought a chuckle because it’s so opposite of everything you read in sales letters. I love it. Your statements reassure me that I’m not the only one. I find it’s especially hard to get started. That is my biggest challenge.

Also, your statements are more true for me if I’m writing a book, writing a blog post or creating a product. When I write for self discovery or to process my feelings, then I feel good afterwards and that in itself is rewarding. Writing for self therapy is different for me than a book, blog post, article etc.

I’m in that “hard time finishing” place right now with my book. I can also resonate with your statement that writing is the last thing you want to do when you should especially when it comes to my book.

As a side note, I have been learning about writing and writing strategies for over eighteen years. One thing that I have found recently is more joy in expressing what I want to say. For years, I was so uptight about doing it right. Now though I still make mistakes and have to rewrite more than I would like, I enjoy writing more because I know the craft better.

Thanks for writing this and pointing out this side of writing. I know not everyone resonates with it but plenty do at least with parts of it. I don’t think it’s being negative, it’s being realistic. Maybe more people would persevere if they knew this can be part of the writing process.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Thanks Sharon. I appreciate that.
http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

Unfortunately, these all true.
http://www.shawnweekly.com/ Shawn Weekly

Nice. Post.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Thank. You.
Bianca

Love it!
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  thanks, Bianca.
http://www.MessiahsMandate.com/ Ron Cantor

Jeff, i love what you write, but what you wrote here is not my experience. I love to write. There are few things I enjoy more. I love to wake up in the morning, drink some coffee and blast out 700 words. I find it life-giving. Here are a few things that help me:

1. I am not a perfectionist. I don’t brood over every word, although it did just take me 10 minutes to choose ‘brood’ and I am still not sure if that is the right word .
2. Even though it is against the rules, I write as if I am talking to someone.
3. Not being trained as a writer helps me not worry about breaking rules in a culture that really doesn’t notice (if content is good.)
4. Thanks to your challenge in YOU ARE A WRITER, I started writing everyday first thing.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Thanks, Ron. Glad the challenge helped. One quick clarification: I love to write, too. But I still find that writing can be, at times, difficult. But the difficulty of something has never been a reason to not enjoy it. All the best to you!
http://bethmorey.blogspot.com/ Beth

Yep sounds about right. Thanks for reminding me — why do I always forget?
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  I’m right there with you, Beth.
http://CindyTunstall.com/ Cindy Tunstall

Jeff, you have inspired me. I am launching my own blog. Not exactly a trend-setter I know, but I believe I have a message to share. Thank you for encouraging me (and a few others) to try. Perfectionism is a beast that no longer has me trapped.
CindyTunstall.com Whoo hoo!
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  awesome!
http://www.timothyburns.com/ Timothy Burns

Love this. Jeff, thanks for being honest about the writing journey. You help me remember that it’s not about perfection (which turns into an insurmountable wall every time) I have this pic hanging beside my desk as a reminder.
http://www.peaceforthejourney.com/ elaine @ peace for the journey

Hard can also be good. The right thing is often the hard thing, but the thing, in the end, that saves our souls and keeps us moving forward. Keep to it.

peace~elaine
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  agreed.
http://www.tillhecomes.org/ Jeremy Myers

So true.
mark botts

ignorance tricks us into believing we’re better than we are – at writing, at anything.
http://www.adsmith.org/ A. D. Smith

Mannn, you spoke a Word! I totally agree! On this day we set aside for ‘rest’, I’m actually ‘Laboring’. Writing, editing, tweeting! Lol! But I will enjoy every leg of the journey, even the most tedious of parts! Can’t wait to hear more about Tribes too! Signed, one of your ‘newer followers’, A. D.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  thanks, A.D.
http://christianfantasywriter.com/ Sarah Hood

It’s a high risk/high reward profession. It takes more work than you ever realized and rarely pays off like you want it to. You actually have to make yourself do it and, sooner or later, let others read it. You have to accept rejection and criticism without letting it destroy you. And sometimes you’re the only one who cares. But you have to care. And you have to love what you do. If you love writing for the sake of writing, the risk is absolutely worth it.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Agreed.
http://4ambassadorsofchrist.blogspot.com/ Jarmila V. Del Boccio

But, it’s worth it when your writing changes lives!
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Yep
http://sandraheskaking.com/ Sandra Heska King

And it’s worth it–most of the time.
http://twitter.com/AleneSnodgrass Alene Snodgrass

“It never gets easier.” Darn!!! Thanks Jeff – needed this.
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
  
  Believe it or not, so did I.
http://colebradburn.com/ Cole Bradburn

Truth.

Especially “It’s the last thing you want to do when it’s the first thing you should do.”

All these points really speak to perseverance. Thanks Jeff.
http://www.placethoughtstory.com/ place{thought}story

I completely relate to this post. Gloria Steinham once said, “I do not like to write; I like to have written.” The process of writing is so very often ugly and tortured but, in the end, if the struggle produces even just one nugget of truth that impacts even one human being in a positive way, it is worth it in the end. This is why we write.
http://ruthannereid.com/ Ruthanne Reid

Aaah! I needed this today! *retweets everywhere*
Erin Joy

Hi Jeff. I really identify with “it’s the last thing you do, but the first thing you SHOULD do.” For me, I am most creative and fresh first thing in the morning. That’s when my butt really stays in the chair. If I get stuck I even take naps sometimes and wake up and do it all over again:)
- http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins
http://zinahermez.wordpress.com/ Zina Hermez

Thank you Jeff, LOL. I needed this : )
ahmedronaldo

I like this style.

I think brian clark had used the same style for his top 10 writing tips. AMazing post jeff.
http://www.shannonmilholland.blogspot.com Shannon Milholland

Can I just say amen?!
sensible

true….
http://www.distractedbyprayer.blogspot.com/ Shannon @ Distracted by Prayer

Thanks Jeff, I’m in the marketing and design stage for my first ebook. Really needed to hear those words today.
http://www.peterdehaan.com/ Peter DeHaan

…and if writing is something you know deep down you have to do or you will explode, then none of these other things matter.
http://therightvolume.com/ Samantha Livingston

And this is why I keep coming back here: you put words to how I feel and, then, as I feel understood and not alone, I become motivated to press on in this adventure called “writing.”
http://ryancaseybooks.com/ Ryan Casey

Great little list! It’s hard, but it does get slightly more bearable over time. It’s all about getting into that right mindset. Yes, it’s a chore sometimes, but the rewards make it all worth it.

Ryan.
http://www.themakegoodchoicesproject.org/ Michael Hawkins

It’s horribly frustrating. Not so much the act of writing…but finding the time to write.

I struggle with it. And it is pulling me apart. I just want/need to find some time to write. It’s almost like being homesick. I miss it that much.

It amazes me how you and others can crank out elegant blog posts every day. Yes — I am jealous.

Somehow, I have to find the time and energy to be creative again. I did it once. I have to figure out how to get back in the routine.
http://www.SamJolman.com/ Sam Jolman

Jeff, this is so validating. Thank you. I’m glad you’re called to supporting writers and that you’ve followed through on that. Keep writing!
bradblackman

Art is a lot like exercising by yourself. It’s not much fun while you’re doing it, but the reward is tremendous.

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