Donald Miller's book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, recently came out in paperback. I strongly recommend you get a copy, if you haven't read it yet (or even if you have).
Reading this was a personal turning point for me — both in regards to writing and life.
Here are some thoughts on the book and why we writers must not only write compelling stories, but also live them.
Living a better story
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years is about story. But it's also about more than that.
It's about living a better story. Here's the basic premise:
In the process, Don learns that his life really isn't that interesting.
Reflecting on his own life, Don applies the basic components of story to actually live a more interesting life.
The result is this compelling book about exotic voyages to Incan ruins, cross-country biking jaunts, fundraising campaigns for freshwater wells in Africa, and a road trip to face the father who abandoned him.
I loved the writing of A Million Miles. It was full of the wit, humor, and intelligence that befits the style that is Don Miller.
No one tells an anecdote like Miller, especially with hilarious, self-effacing remarks peppered throughout the story.
The message is simple and challenging for an writer: Live a better story.
If all you're doing is writing stories but not living them, then you're a fraud.
Caveat: “better” is subjective
While I like the idea of “living a better story,” I can see the heart of this book getting lost. So let's be careful how we qualify this idea of “better.”
Working a steady job and taking care of your family may, in fact, be an excellent story. Irresponsibly floating from one flaky commitment to the next for the sake of “adventure” may not.
The truth is we all want to live a great story.
We all want to have something of which we'd be proud to tell our grandchildren. We want to be able to look back on our lives when we cross the threshold of eternity and feel good about the impact we made with our life.
A Million Miles in a Thousand Years gives us the framework for how to live that better story.
The story that you're living
I hope you're living a great story and not merely writing one. I hope you're bringing dreams to life and making a difference. I hope you're proud of your tale and at the end of your life you will hear the words, “Well done…”
If not, then I hope you're willing to change. Because there's a lot riding on your story and how you choose to live it. Please treat it with care; you only get one.
What is the story that you're living? If you could rewrite it, would you?
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