10 Steps to Finding Your Writing Voice

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I write only because / There is a voice within me / That will not be still.
–Sylvia Plath

Awhile ago, I wrote an article called, “Finding Your Blog’s Unique Voice.” In it, I explain that a blog needs a voice that is both exclusive and authentic.

Writing Voice
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But here, I want to share a little bit more about how to find your overall writing voice. Which is, I believe, the single greatest struggle for most writers. And it’s also the key to unlocking your creative potential.

Spending some time deliberating over voice is worth your attention and focus. Whether you blog for fun, write novels, craft poems, pencil melodies, or inspire people with your prose, it’s essential that you find your unique writing style.

If you struggle with getting people to read your writing or with staying consistent in your craft, you need to stop chasing numbers and productivity and reboot. It’s time to start finding and developing that voice of yours.

An exercise for finding your voice

Not sure where to start? No problem. Most of us need help understanding our voice. Here’s a short exercise that can help you — just follow these 10 steps:

  1. Describe yourself in three adjectives. Example: snarky, fun, and flirty.
  2. Ask (and answer) the question: “Is this how I talk?”
  3. Imagine your ideal reader. Describe him in detail. Then, write to him, and only him. Example: My ideal reader is smart. He has a sense of humor, a short attention span, and is pretty savvy when it comes to technology and pop culture. He’s sarcastic and fun, but doesn’t like to waste time. And he loves pizza.
  4. Jot down at least five books, articles, or blogs you like to read. Spend some time examining them. How are they alike? How are they different? What about how they’re written intrigues you? Often what we admire is what we aspire to be. Example: Copyblogger, Chris Brogan, Seth Godin, Ernest Hemingway, and C.S. Lewis. I like these writers, because their writing is intelligent, pithy, and poignant.
  5. List your favorite artistic and cultural influences. Are you using these as references in your writing, or avoiding them, because you don’t think people would understand them. Example: I use some of my favorite bands’ music in my writing to teach deeper lessons.
  6. Ask other people: “What’s my voice? What do I sound like?” Take notes of the answers you get.
  7. Free-write. Just go nuts. Write in a way that’s most comfortable to you, without editing. Then go back and read it, asking yourself, “Do I publish stuff that sounds like this?”
  8. Read something you’ve recently written, and honestly ask yourself, “Is this something I would read?” If not, you must change your voice.
  9. Ask yourself: “Do I enjoy what I’m writing as I’m writing it?” If it feels like work, you may not be writing like yourself. (Caveat: Not every writer loves the act of writing, but it’s at least worth asking.)
  10. Pay attention to how you’re feeling. How do you feel before publishing? Afraid? Nervous? Worried? Good. You’re on the right track. If you’re completely calm, then you probably aren’t being vulnerable. Try writing something dangerous, something a little more you. Fear can be good. It motivates you to make your writing matter.

Why do you need a writing voice?

Finding your voice is the key to getting dedicated followers and fans and that it’s the only sustainable way to write. If you’re not being yourself, you’ll eventually burn out.

Once you’ve found your voice, make sure you continue to develop it. It’s a discipline, one that can’t be overlooked if you’re going to have the impact you desire and that your words deserve.

The bottom line is that there’s a lot of noise out there in the world. If you’re going to get heard, you can’t just raise your voice. You’ve got to set yourself apart, showing you have something special to say, and that you have a unique way of saying it.

Recommended reading: For more on this topic of finding your voice as a writer, you should read Bird by Bird (affiliate link), an excellent book on the writing life by Anne Lamott.

What does your writing voice sound like? Have you found it, or are you still searching? Share in the comments.

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197 thoughts on “10 Steps to Finding Your Writing Voice

  1. Jeff, I just feel you speak my heart out. I’m still struggling with finding my voice. I’m already on the 500 word challenge and I hope to get myself on writing habit prior to practicing any of these exercises.

  2. Finding your voice is funny. So many of us were taught that writing needs to be flowery and flawless. Nope. Writing needs to communicate. I try to write like I’m talking to my friends. They get me, so others will too. If not, then I’m not writing for them anyway.

  3. My voice, as well as my personality and being, seems to change daily as I adapt to the idea of being a retired teacher. The weather also seems to change my voice. Sometimes I think that this is directly related to the fact that I taught high school theater, directed high school theater, and enjoyed my time on stage.

  4. Jeff,
    I’m so new to the blogosphere that I don’t know the difference between a “guest comment” and a comment I’d make with Disqus, and I can’t get the Disqus
    thingy to work. So, hope I’m not just writing to myself.

    I enjoyed reading your 10 step exercises for finding your voice, but I think those exercises are more helpful for online content writers than fiction writers. From comments that I’ve read on your blog posts, a whole lotta folks who love you and your posts are in various stages of wanting to be fiction writers. Not saying that a new or emerging fiction couldn’t benefit from your suggestions. Just saying that fiction writers—even the most commercial fictions writers—have to focus on a lot more than attracting an audience. Among other things, fiction writers need to stimulate and cultivate their imaginations. Having an audience might do wonders for my ego, but I doubt that it would improve my imagination much.

    A lot of new writers read novels and short stories in their favorite genre, and only by their favorite writers. I think this is not only damaging to their imaginations, but also to their ability to “find a voice.” One way to nurture your imagination is to read literary fiction. I don’t mean stuffy 19th century classics, but they are OK too if they get your creative motor running. And I’m not suggesting that a new writer start out by reading Infinite Jest—off and on, I’ve been reading that most excellent monstrosity of a novel for almost a year, and might finish it before I die. By literary, I do not mean difficult reading. There’s plenty of contemporary, entertaining, and easy to read literary fiction.

    Please don’t think I’m a literary snob. I was raised on genre fiction—westerns,
    sci-fi, adventure, mystery—and still like genre fiction. I’ve read so-called genre novels I think have as much literary merit as novel that have won Pulitzers. I suggest literary fiction, in part, because the greatest genre fiction writers were nurtured on literary fiction. Stephen King, J.K. Rowling, Elmore Leonard, John Grisham, and other noted genre writers became interested in writing by reading writers who made them think, as well entertained them.

    Besides stimulating your imagination, literary fiction can show you the magic writers can
    do with sentences. And a variety of writers and writing styles can help emerging
    writers stop trying to emulate or imitate their favorite novelist. Most important, it can help writers to start focusing on finding a story instead of “finding their elusive voices. All that to say, they might start putting words on paper or the computer screen. When a new writer starts performing that magic of giving life to words, she or he will find this voice they’ve been looking for. More likely, it will find them. Just sayin’.

    I need to end this before I stray into my mental area that requires me to write another
    post nobody will ever read.

    Keep up the good work.



    1. Hi, Lamont. I totally agree. I have a personal rule in which I do not read another book by the same author in the same year. Tough going sometimes -I’m about to leave the Mervyn Peake quarantine period, and I cannot wait to read Gormenghast book 2. 🙂

      (BTW, I’ve just glimpsed your blog and hope to read more of it soon. Looks really interesting. Love your statement on your bio: “The way I see it, if an astronaut is an astronaut before she gets locked inside a metal container on top of huge tubes filled with millions of pounds of explosive gas and is blasted into outer space, why isn’t a writer a writer before he publishes a story?” Hear, hear. I’m beginning to finally realise for myself that the only failed writer is a writer who doesn’t write.)

  5. When I was teaching English, I used a technique to help students understand voice in the writing process. I used the character of Truman Capote’s aunt in the short story, “A Christmas Memory.” He described her so beautifully that his voice was easy to find. The students were challenged to change some of the words so the passage would describe a tough Harley Motorcycle gang member. They came up with some interesting passages. They were very surprised to find out that they wrote the descriptions in Truman Capote’s voice. I thought I would share this because in order to find your writing voice, you should understand what you are looking for. Just a thought.

  6. Outstanding. It sheds very subjective light on the process of writing. I have always been interested to hop to “free writing” mode which I haven’t been able to do yet. My pen shakes in fear what possibly could come out. But I guess it’s time we all let our imagination run riot. come what may. 🙂

  7. I am still searching. I believe in, the writing voice would be effective when you develop a vision. & then U initiate yourself into writing your voice will, hopefully, find its way.

  8. I am still trying to develop it. It does take time. Thanks so much, I found your post both interesting and informative. Please continue to share your insight. I shared your post with my readers with a link back to your site. This is a tool that all writers could benefit from. As a writer I continue to search for and learn new things.

    Thanks for sharing,

  9. I found out that my “voice” could be quite rude, crude, impolite, but straight to the point..
    not thoroughly aggressive but not “nice” either. I think my readers appreciate that,,, quite strange if you ask me…

  10. I believe that the 7 step is to think about your job well and give it a true assessment. Re-read himself, to read to friends. Be sure to compose lie on the shelf and read in a week. Do you think it can also be changed. If you do not use a variety of paper writing service
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  11. I found your post both very informative. Please continue to share your insight. I have been reading and sharing your post through my twitter account as I know that the information you are sharing would help many aspiring writers. I have created an interactive tool to help newbie writers in finding their writing voice, based on the information you’ve shared here. I would love to here your thoughts about it. Thank you! Here is the link: https://copyeffect.com/interactive-guide-find-your-writing-voice/

  12. i intend to inspire and encourage People with my writing Journey ” you have a dream, be persistent “. Thanks for your Post, i Love your act of sharing .

  13. Loved this post. Very informative in terms of voice and practicing your writing. These steps are amazing tools to help guide you.

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  18. That certain thing looks helpful for some people who are still confused what is really their style in writing. At least, they can get some hint from this tips that you gave which is actually helpful for them to have.

  19. Thank you for this post. I’m a relatively new or basically an aspiring writer. This easy and quick exercise really helped me clarify some things this afternoon. I think I’m on the right track as far as my voice, but the first few questions really helped me narrow down what I like and who I’m targeting. A really great help!

  20. Thanks Jeff. In the process of writing down the answers to these questions, I feel more certain about my ‘voice’ but also more comfortable with the purpose behind my blog.

  21. I already know how is my writing voice looks like. It just that the way how I talk and write are like the basics. And that is what make my writing dull and uninteresting.

  22. I really like this post. I have been trying to find my writing voice for a while now, and I saw your post and it has helped me tremendously. Thanks Jeff. Great post.

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