How to Be a Polite (and Successful) Guest Blogger

How to Be a Polite Guest Blogger

This is Geoffrey the butler, not Laura the awesome guest blogger.

Remember that show The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air with Will Smith?

Whenever I think of the word “polite” the image of the butler Geoffrey comes to mind, for some reason. He’s polite and prim (and maybe a little cynical).

Regardless, he is the very picture of propriety.

Well, Laura Click (who guest-posted here yesterday) is like the Geoffrey of the guest-posting world.

She’s the most polite guest blogger I’ve ever met.

I was so impressed with my experience of her guest post that I’m dedicating today’s post on what you can learn from her.

If you’re considering writing for other blogs to help you get noticed as a writer (which is an excellent idea), you would do well to follow her example.

Tips for Guest Blogging Success

Here’s what Laura did (and you can do) to be a very polite and successful guest blogger:

Put the community first

Laura wrote an article on a topic that we both agreed would benefit the community of writers, bloggers, and creatives that read this blog. She spoke directly to you, encouraging you to use your valuable gifts to make money, providing some practical ways to get started.

Submit your “A” content

Laura wrote an excellent article, which shows in the comments and retweets. She not only wrote something that was relevant to this blog’s audience, but she also wrote it very well.

She didn’t send me a recycled post from her blog or some “B” quality content that wasn’t good enough for her own site. She sent me a post that, it seemed to me, she worked on for a while.

Make your article incredibly easy to post

While every blogger has their own preferences, it’s important to have your post as ready-to-post as possible. Make sure that you’ve proofread it and that there’s no funky formatting that will make posting it a hassle for the blogger.

In my opinion, Laura went above and beyond my expectations in this realm. She sent me two documents via email — one that was plain text and another already formatted in HTML. All I had to do was copy and paste the post in my blog and hit “Publish.”

Laura included a photo and provided back-links to other relevant posts on my blog. She even laid out the post in short paragraphs (for easy scanning) and broke up the main points into sub-headers that made the reading more intuitive and comprehensible.

Share generously

Laura leveraged her strong social media presence and connections with other influencers and shared the post link (more than once) on Twitter and Facebook.

Throughout the day, she thanked every single person who retweeted the post, including my Twitter handle in each tweet to encourage others to follow me.

Give precedent to relationship

All of this was birthed out of relationship.

Laura and I were following each other on Twitter. Then, we met at a local meetup. Then, I guest-posted for her blog. Then, I invited her to do the same. And we dialogued via email and Twitter throughout the whole thing.

We didn’t cold-pitch each other. We didn’t try to sell or convince one another of anything. We got to know each other, and then we tried to help one another in our respective community goals.

In my opinion, Laura blew me out of the water. I hope to one day be half the guest blogger she is.

Recommended reading: How to Be a Good Guest Blogger [Problogger]

For further reading, you might enjoy this eBook and course by Chris Garrett on guest posting. I bought it — it’s a little old-school, but the content’s great.

What tips for guest blogging success do you have?

Disclosure: Some of the above links are affiliate links.

About the Author

Jeff Goins

I help people tell better stories and make a difference in the world. I live in Tennessee with my wife and dog. Follow me on Twitter and Facebook.

  • http://www.flybluekite.com Laura Click

    Wow, Jeff. I’m blown away. Thank you so much for the kind words. It was truly a pleasure to be a guest on your blog! Thanks for having me and for being so great to work with!

    Thanks for taking our great experience working together and framing it in a way that can help your readers. I hope people take your advice and start rocking some awesome guest posts!

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      No, thank YOU, Laura! You were great.

  • http://www.jeremysconfessions.com Jeremy’s Confessions

    It can also be good to change your writing style some to fit the other person’s blog while at the same time keeping your own style intact. If they lean more towards humor than you normally do, then go with that approach. If their blog is more practical then make clear suggestions.

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      Agreed. Good call, Jeremy. It’s all about serving the community and blog host, in my opinion.

    • http://www.flybluekite.com Laura Click

      This is EXCELLENT advice. Before every guest post I’ve written, I make sure I read a number of the blogger’s posts first so I can “hear” their style when I’m writing. I write to make it sound like it’s coming from them. If you do that, you’re post will fit in beautifully with their content.

      • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

        that’s a great tactic. thanks, laura!

  • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

    Great post. I am starting to submit (and receive) Guest Blogging posts and needed some tips like this. Perfect timing. Thanks!

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      thanks, jeremy! you look like you’re doing pretty well yourself! loved your problogger post.

      • http://www.flybluekite.com Laura Click

        If you got a post on ProBlogger, then you are definitely doing something right! Good work, Jeremy!

        • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

          agreed

  • http://twitter.com/ThatGuyKC K.C. Pro

    Great post! I plan on writing a similar piece on why guest blogging is a strategic move for both bloggers and will link to this.

    Gave you some StumbleUpon props and a tweet is scheduled. :)

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      thanks!

  • http://www.marianneworley.com Marianne Worley

    I love how Laura approached the guest blog on your site. She really took the time to become part of the community, especially by linking to other parts of your site. Guest blogging can help a blogger find a whole new audience and engage with new people. Well done Laura and Jeff!

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      Thanks, Marianne. She’s a pro!

    • http://www.flybluekite.com Laura Click

      Awww, shucks. Thanks, Marianne. I appreciate the kind words. I’ve enjoyed connecting with you!

  • http://twitter.com/PeterPaluska Peter Paluska

    I agree wholeheartedly about Laura and I think it was a brilliant idea, a stroke of genius really, to dedicate a post to her and how to emulate her fine example when it comes to guest posting.

    Bravo to Jeff and Laura!

    Peter

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      well, she was just that good that it was worth highlighting. thanks, peter.

      • http://www.flybluekite.com Laura Click

        Y’all are just too kind. Really. Truly.

  • John Shore

    Love it.

    • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

      thanks, john.